“I need you to need me”- The dark side of helping!


Toxic helpers seem kind, always offering a hand, but their goal isn’t to empower—it’s to keep you dependent. Behind their generosity lies a need for validation and control. In this blog, we uncover the hidden motivations of those who help to feel needed, not to truly help. Read more on spotting these manipulative saviors. Continue reading “I need you to need me”- The dark side of helping!

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The Tear-Jerker Effect: Why Charity Ads Don’t Always Equal Real Change


Hey Subscriber,

Ever felt a little too emotional after watching a charity ad? Like, you’re reaching for your wallet more out of guilt than genuine compassion? You’re not alone.

In my latest blog post, “The Guilt Trip Express,” I’m diving into the world of guilt-induced charity – the good, the bad, and the ugly. We’ll explore:

The Guilt Machine: How charities use emotional triggers to get us to donate.
The Hidden Harm: Why this kind of giving can actually hurt more than it helps.
The Right Way to Give: How to make a real difference without the guilt trip.
Plus, a few shout-outs to the everyday heroes making the world a better place, even if they’re not donating every paycheck. 😉

Let’s make charity about compassion, not guilt.

Talk soon,
Dileep Continue reading The Tear-Jerker Effect: Why Charity Ads Don’t Always Equal Real Change

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Breaking Free from the Toxic Culture of Comparison: A Path to Self-Fulfillment


The toxic nature of the motivation industry has created a culture of comparison, where people are expected to conform to unrealistic standards set by others. This leads to stress, anxiety and even depression. The solution is to focus on our own personal growth and to celebrate our uniqueness. By embracing our individuality and comparing ourselves only to who we were yesterday, we can break free from the toxic culture of comparison and live fulfilling and meaningful lives. Continue reading Breaking Free from the Toxic Culture of Comparison: A Path to Self-Fulfillment